Monday, December 31, 2012

Learning From 2012



As the year draws to a close, it really is a wonder when I look back at the past year. Yet another year has gone past and this year was not an uneventful one. Indeed, it was a pretty tough year, but definitely not without any lessons to behold. If we could all just stop and smell the roses and look back on the past year, I’m sure that you will find that somehow or other you have found yourself learning something which took part in building your character. Life is an unending journey of learning. I’d like to share some of the important lessons I’ve picked up along the way this year.

1     Never stray from God

Easier said than done. Seriously. I know how it feels like being away from God. And it sucks. Big time. It has been a pretty busy year for me and I actually allowed other things to take priority in my life. Spiritually, it was the most exhausting year. When you slide down the hill, it is so hard to get back up again to where you were. There were moments when I felt it was so dark and I was just too far away from God. The feeling gave me a realisation that I’ve been taking my relationship with God for granted for too long. A relationship is meant to be a two way thing. Since God keeps His part of the covenant, I should keep mine too.

2       God is forever faithful

Even in my darkest moments, I knew that God will bring me through. Psalms 23 is the best passage to remind us of how God is always there for us even when we “walk through the valley of the shadow of death”. Another thing is that God has brought me through this tough year. It is truly by His grace that I made it to the end of 2012 alive. No, I’m not talking about the speculated Mayan end of the world. Honestly, if it weren’t for Christ the Saviour in me, I think I would have just called it quits at some point during the year.

3       Godly friends are essential in your life. Hard to find, hard to forget.

I thank God for the friends I have who were there for me through this year. Godly advice is really what we have been giving each other since we knew each other. I really thank God for blessing me with people who really care for you and will set aside time to wait until you chill. Thanks to you guys if you read this! You know who you are! Love you to the max! :DD <3

4       Don’t let negativity influence you.

A lot of negative thoughts are really bad for you and they bring you down. I’ve never had so much negative comments before, so it kind of had a part to play in my bringing down of myself this year. But like I said, God was faithful to bring me through. It’s always better to stay away from the people who keep feeding negative thoughts to you before you become depressed and go crazy.

5     Sometimes the things that irritate you the most are the things that will protect you in life.

Like mum’s nagging. Or a safety harness. I recently went to a theme park where you have to wear safety harnesses as you overcome obstacles which are hanging a few feet, at the minimum, above the ground. The safety harness was really getting in the way at times. But, I knew that without the safety harness, I would be in big danger of losing my life.

6       No fear is too big for God.

I really thank God that I am slowly overcoming my fear of height and water! I managed to overcome the obstacles in the theme park I mentioned. At first, I was really terrified when I first saw how high we were. But after a while, I was dying to do more! I also am learning how to swim again. Although not the proper way, but at least I’m in the water again.

7      Focus on your goal

When you focus on your goal, working towards it seems easier. Just like when I was hanging about 20 feet up in the air, tackling the obstacle, I kept looking at the next platform. It made the experience more fun and exciting, instead of tiring.

           Keep calm and wait upon the Lord

Really. Just be still and let the Lord do His will. In all my tests and exams, I did just that and rested in Him. I got results better than I ever expected.

9       Be thankful for everything

The point speaks for itself. The more thankful you are, for good and bad times, the happier you are.

I’m sure there’s a whole new exciting year ahead. 2013, here I come :D

Blessed new year to all :D
God bless :DD